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Lightning Thieves FTW (For The Win)!

Libin and I teamed up to join a tag-team speed-climbing competition that was held today.

 

We met for the first time last weekend to get to know each other and to have a practice session together. It was her first climb then and today was her first climbing competition.

 

Thru combined effort and lots of fun, our team called 'Lightning Thieves' managed to win the third prize in the Mixed Open Team event. Hooray!

 

Now quick, congratulate us! Hahaha... =)

  

Jack 'Tiger' Neo Unmasked!

Aside from the earthquakes, it seems like another new trend has emerged: famous personalities being sexposed for their sexual trysts with mistresses. And it's happening all over the world too.

 

In North America, Tiger Woods.

 

In Europe, John Terry.

 

Representing Asia, Jack Neo. Well done Jack! You've made Singapore proud!

 

And to make it even more uniquely Singapore, Jack was sexposed by his own mistress who confronted him at his own home. There's even a twist to the story.

 

The twist? The wife knew it all along.

 

One can only expect juicier details of the affair to emerge in the days to come. And with such details, ingredients for another blockbuster hit. Question is: will Jack Neo direct a film about his love life or will someone else (Royston Tan please!) do it?

 

One can only wait. And the new movie might be called 'Women No Enough!'

 

In the meantime, many people are wondering what is the girl trying to achieve?

 

Her moral standing is already clear when she decided to be his mistress. Thus if she did it to expose Jack's infidelity out of a moral obligation, then that justification is flawed.

 

According to the news, Wendy Chong (the mistress) did it because Jack had lied to her and she was upset. The phrase 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' might be fitting here, but it was also revealed that their affair had been rocky from the start two years ago. Since she was scorned so many times, why did she wait till now to expose him?

 

It appears that Wendy might want to achieve something more than what she mentioned to the media. But since she is speaking to the media, it's better to appear a saint than a sinner. After all, no one want to be known as someone bad. Almost everyone wants good things to be written or heard about themselves.

 

But like I mentioned earlier, her moral standing is already clear when she decided to be his mistress. I am inclined to believe Jack was really tired of the constant demands, threats and whines of this girl, hence the move to come clean about his affair with his wife. Unfortunately, he didn't expect the girl to get the media into it as well.

 

Still, good publicity or bad publicity, it is still publicity. And Jack Neo is just a man. People make mistakes. This man is no different. As according to him, they were both muddled and rash.

 

Personally I think they were just horny as hell.

 


 

Earthquake. Again.

This time the earthquake has struck Sumatra, which is a 'hot-spot' for such natural disaster. Details of the tragedy can be read here.

 

As far as I can remember, this is the first time that earthquakes are occurring in rapid successions globally. Is it a cause for alarm?

 

In Singapore, we are generally spared the brunt of Nature's forces due to our geographical location. Other than reading about natural disasters that happening regionally and globally, we have almost no idea how destructive such forces can be.

 

This is worrying because we can get complacent and won't know how to react when such tragic events befall us. I imagined the most common reaction for a typical Singaporean is to resign to fate when the natural disaster is happening. The only thing going thru a typical Singaporean mind would be 'Die liao ah! I'm going to die liao ah...! Nabey!!!' (English translation: Oh dear! My time is up! Damn!).

 

And if such a Singaporean survive the ordeal, the first thing running thru the mind would be 'Heng ah! Never die! Wah... How come I so suay? Kena such suay things??? Where's the Gahmen???' (English translation: How fortunate, I survived this disaster. Why must such misfortune befall me? Where is the aid from the Government?).

 

Singaporeans are so protected from natural disasters that a Singaporean's ability to survive one would appear to be handicapped. We just won't know what to do when tragedy befall us. For some time, we would be awed by the experience though. As consolation, we would be able to 'appreciate' the experience.

 

'Alice In Wonderland' Synopsis

17-year-old Alice attends a party at a Victorian estate only to find she is about to be proposed to in front of hundreds of snooty society types. She runs off, following the White Rabbit into a hole and ends up in Wonderland, a place she visited in a similar manner 10 years before, yet doesn't remember. Wonderland was a peaceful kingdom until the Red Queen overthrew her sister, the White Queen. The creatures of Wonderland, such as the Cheshire Cat, Tweedledee and Tweedledum  and the March Hare, ready to revolt, wait for Alice to help them. With the help of the White Queen, the Mad Hatter and the Caterpillar, Alice starts seeing flashbacks of her original visit, back when she was seven.

 

'Alice In Wonderland' Review

Personally I don't recall ever reading the original story of Alice In Wonderland. But I vaguely remember watching a film about it and I roughly know the story. Thus in a way watching this film (which was a 'follow-up' to the original story) was akin to watching something new.

 

Tim Burton's films have always been dramatic and animated, and this one is no exception. The characters in the story really comes to live in full technicolor splendor and with such life that I was quite absorbed in the story and emerged entertained.

 

However, the pace of the story is a bit unnecessarily draggy at times. And the story left out details unnecessarily too, to the point one can feel lost in following the show. But, as with all Tim Burton's film, the fair deal of summary in the end left people with a general idea of the show.

 

If there was an Academy award for Best Actor in a Zany Role, that honour would undoubtedly go to Johnny Depp. He has the special ability of bringing the best out of outworldly characters, and he did it again this time as the Mad Hatter. He could also win an award as Most Versatile Actor too. While the Mad Hatter is very much a supporting role in the show, it seemed more emphasis was given to this character than to Alice. It made me wonder if this show was better called 'Alice And The Mad Hatter'.

 

Overall, this is quite an entertaining show and is definitely worth catching, especially if you are into stories of fantasies that are full of life and colour.

 


 

Oh Deer...

Well this is something you don't read or hear of every other day. A wild deer wandering into the open. And in this case, getting knocked down by a vehicle.

 

I don't know who I should pity more: the wild deer that got lost or the bewildered Singaporean who saw a deer appearing suddenly out of nowhere?

 

But the story revealed that there is a small population wild deer in the nature reserves of Singapore. I wonder what other creatures are being hidden in the jungles. A tiger perhaps?

 

Monkey See, Monkey Do.

Have you ever heard of that phrase 'monkey see, monkey do'?

It means someone copying another person's actions, usually with the hope of reaping the same benefits.

 

But if you copy blindly, then you will set yourself up to go down in deep shit.

 

This article illustrate the situation when it's better off not copying others. In summary a lady tried to bribe a traffic warden into letting her off when she saw another traffic offender putting a packet of coffee onto the warden's motorcycle. What she didn't knew was that the other traffic offender was going around distributing free sample of coffee. What she got in the end was a 3 weeks jail term in addition to the fine for the traffic offense.

 

How stupid can you get?

 

It is well-known that Singapore has a tough stance against bribery. If she was a foreigner, it could be a cultural mistake on her part. But she isn't. And worse, she did what she thought was ok just because she saw someone else doing it.

 

Really, how stupid can you get?

 

Earthquake Struck Taiwan

Earthquake has struck again, and this time it's in Taiwan. The magnitude of it is 6.4 on the Richter scale.

 

So far South America and Asia has been struck. Perhaps next will be North America?

 

It seems to me that Nature is planning a reconstruction of the landscape. And this is being done in the only way the Nature knows how: thru earthquakes. Unfortunate for us then, that we are at the mercy of it's immense power.

 

This just reminds me that life is short and unpredictable. So have fun and enjoy life to the fullest. Because you'll never know when you got to go.

 

Spiritual Guru He Is. Just A Man He Is.

In society there are always people to look up to. Government leaders, educators, artistes and so on. Including spiritual leaders.

 

And people tend to have certain expectations and impressions of the people they look up to. Thus if their idols behave out of norm, the reaction can be nasty. But people forgot that those they look up to, are still human.

 

This article showed that the spiritual leader that is revered around the world is still just a man. And the man has needs, just like any other man. The only difference is that his needs are fulfilled by a hot actress who is probably the fantasy of many.

 

So if you have someone that you look up to, just remember the most basic rule: he/she is only human.

  


 

Happy Birthday Laura! May your wishes come true and happiness be with you, always! And may you get that pink studio apartment sooner! =)

 

I met up with Laura for a photo shooting spree. My first mistake was that I forgot to tell her I was dressing up due to a last minute dinner appointment, after telling her to dress down the day before. So we looked like a mismatched pair walking around Orchard. Sorry Laura....

 

Originally the plan was snapping shots around town before ending up at the skygardens of Pinnacle@Duxton. However, the weather was against us as it.was.so.freaking.hot!!

 

Thus we ended up firstly doing some shopping as she wanted to get a new camera bag. Luck was on our side as the Crumper was having a sale. There were a variety of bags to choose from. Eventually she settled for one that could fit the camera nicely as anything bigger will lead to her throwing more stuffs in it.

 

We then tried to get into the roof garden of Paragon but somehow that access has been blocked and reserved by some upmarket spa. Really, the spa should just let us go thru the garden since no one else is. =\

 

We took a break at Coffee Club with Muddy Mud Pie. That's when the snapping started.

 

We then proceeded to Marina Mandarin where we stumbled upon something interesting...

A house of soft-toys, or a rather big doll-house

Laura's dolls have found new friends

 

Will put up more photos soon! Stay tuned!

 


 

An Intellectual Discourse

Once in a while I would indulge in reading up materials that provide stimulants to my intellect. I find such indulgence invigorating to the mind, just like how jogging is invigorating to the body. And the benefits often exceed the time and effort invested.

 

Most recently, Chee Meng shared with me an article that led to intense discussions between people that we know of. The content revolves around the subject of religion, and any discussion on religion is bound to lead to a heated discussion.

 

I invite you to read the article for it is rather interesting. A warning though: some may not like what you will read. However, before one gets lost in the myriad of issues raised or gets emotionally affected by it, one should always remember that the author was just expressing his views. And that the whole article is about the author trying to find reason in an unreasonable, personal and I would say tragic event.

 

You can read more about the intellectual discourse here.

 


 

Funny Photo - No Way This Is Real

You have to wonder when you look at this photo:

Wonder how the hell did Ultraman lose to this chick?

 

Especially in terms of size. After all, if you knew Ultraman, he can go up to the same size as the baddies, always.

 

So how come he lost to this chick???

 

The photo tells it all.

 

Check it out here and see more funny photos too. Wicked!

Driest Month. Ever.

It is official. February was the driest month in Singapore. Ever.

 

It was so dry that Singaporeans forgot what rain was.

 

It was so dry that there are rumours that a foreign talent is going to be hired to do the rain dance.

 

It was so dry that the army had to be deployed to guard the reservoirs and prevent people from siphoning water from the reservoirs.

 

That's how dry February was.

 

It's not too bad actually. My clothes dry faster when I hang them out. And one can get a good tan from all the sun.

 

Bottom-line... make good use of the weather.

 

More Earthquakes

Besides Chile, an Earthquake had also struck Argentina.

 

Seems like the Earth is striking back. If the trend keeps up, the world will be in for more Earthquakes in the months to come. Which is a pretty scary thought.

 

I wonder what is shaking the world up down there. Hmmm...

 

Wrapping Up The Month Of Love

I shared the following with someone, some time last month. I think it nicely sums up the month of love.

 

Love is very much an ideal tat has different meanings to different people. One doesn't really fall in love with a person, but more with the ideal of love tat person provides.

 
That is why we can fall in and out of love with different people at different times of our lives.
 

And as we go thru pleasure and pain, that ideal and perception changes. So does the type of person who fall for.

 


 

The Tsunami That Wasn't

 After reading about the tsunami warnings being raised in many countries, I woke up around noon expecting to read about the areas affected by it. But I found none.

 

Then I met up with Zonghao and Ronghui and we made our way down to China Square. Along the way, we started to talk about the earthquake in Chile. A while later, news started to come in thru the radio about the tsunami hitting Japan and Russia. 'Japan reported that tidal waves of up to 30cm has hit their coastline...'

 

Ronghui: "Did she just said 30cm?"

 

Me: "Yeah, I think she did."

 

It made me wonder how do people identified it to be a tsunami when it's just 30cm? Most waves probably have the same height or higher.

 

"Russia has cancelled their tsunami warning even though their coastline has been hit by tsunamis as high as 10cm..."

 

Well, a tsunami wave that high is definitely not worth raising alarms for.

 

But tsunami waves were higher for areas closer to the epicenter of the earthquake. Which isn't surprising, considering that the force of the earthquake is greater. You can get more details on that in this article.

 

Still, one must never take things easy when it comes to natural calamities. Because the forces of Nature are something not to be underestimated or undermined.

 

Speed Climbing Training

I met up with Li Bin for the first time today, after communicating plenty over the phone and email. Today was going to be our first speed climbing training session, first climbing session together and first time meeting up. There's always a first for everything.

 

And I found out it was her first climb on the wall this year too.

 

Anyway we got acquainted fast and got to know the wall faster. Since it was her first climb I gave her some tips and showed her the way of the wall. Speed climbing is different from normal climbing in terms of techniques and wall configuration. Li Bin picked up the basics fast, which was good since our competition is next weekend.

 

End of the day, we felt sure we will be awesome next week for the competition. Stay tuned for the results and wish us all the best!

 

When Chilli Doesn't Get Processed

(Note that this entry may be difficult to stomach as it contains some graphic toilet-ish detail. Skip it if you can't stand it. You have been warned)

 

I had Fried Kway Teow with generous amounts of chilli for lunch today. This resulted in a rather spicy lunch. I thought nothing of it as my stomach can handle spicy stuffs.

 

But somehow the chilli skipped my stomach's processing. And went straight for my body's exit point. This resulted in a rather slight painful burning sensation in my ass when I visited the toilet for my daily output processing.

 

The burning sensation lasted for a short time. The experience still lingers. =\

 

The End Of Feb

The good thing about February is that it is short. But that is also a bad thing because it means March is here sooner than expected.

 

Damn. Time really flies.

 


 

Greed & Stupidity

I realized that greed and stupidity often end up being in the same room. Whenever a person is greedy, that person will do stupid things.

 

As an example, read this article about this guy. He could use his own identification card or driver's license to go into the Resort World Sentosa. But he doesn't. Instead, he used his brother's driving license (which he had stolen). Stupid.

 

Next, he became greedy and placed a bet after the result of a game was out. And he tried to convince the dealer that he had made a legitimate bet. Really stupid.

 

Lastly, he tried to convince the police officer that he is the guy in the stolen driver's license. Really, really stupid.

 

On the plus side, he became infamous as the first guy to be involved in Singapore's first casino fraud case. Well done Mr Loo!

 

Know Thy Weakness

A chain is only as strong as it's weakest link. Similarly a person's character is only as good as his flaws.

 

One of my greatest flaws is self-discipline. Or rather, the lack of self-discipline.

 

Many a times I get bored with the routine stuffs that need to be done, and that's when procrastination takes over. This leads to me suddenly finding myself short of time in doing things or things just don't get done.

 

Thus I rationale that to make my life better, I have to start inculcating a stronger self- disciple. This means doing what needs to be done, seeing things thru to the end, weakening my procrastination and strengthening my resolve.

 

I have tasted the fruits of my labour when I had a stronger self-discipline. I had bear witness to positive results when I took better control of my life and my self. And I thoroughly enjoyed the experience. And I want to relive it.

 

Looking back at my old notes, I realized that this has been a target of mine since 2008. It's time to take more affirmative actions towards achieving this.

 

I know I can.

 

The Earthquake in Chile

I reached home and couldn't sleep so decided to catch up on world news. That's how I found out a 8.8 magnitude earthquake had struck Chile. And that the biggest tsunami warning in history had been sounded.

 

The world is still recovering from the quake in Haiti. Now another earthquake has struck, this time in Chile. Is Nature giving signs that it is fed-up with people's crimes against Nature?

 

Only time will tell.

 


 

And The Coward Gets Away...

Take a look at the following photo:

 

That's the face of the coward that got away, with murder.

 

He came here, worked in a consulate and instead of keeping the peace like everyone else, used his car as a tool to carry out a murderous car rampage that has led to the death of one person and injured two others. After knocking people down, he abandoned the car, got into a cab and called the police to say the vehicle was stolen. Three days later, he left the country and now is said to be holidaying.

 

Obviously he is never coming back.

 

Where is the justice in this world?

 

Can anything be done to bring this guy back to justice?

 


 

F.U.C.K Facebook

If the message wasn't clear or graphic enough, look below:

Seriously, FUCK FACEBOOK!

 

For no reason whatsoever, my account was disabled.

 

There was no warning, no error message, nothing.

 

I wasn't even doing anything wrong.

 

The last thing I did was add an app, replied to some status comments and went on to chat on MSN Messenger. When I came back to check a while later, I was logged out of my Facebook account on my browser. When I tried to log back in, it informed me my account was disabled.

 

So, seriously, Fuck Facebook.

 

I've wrote in to find out what exactly happened so now I'm awaiting their reply.

 

Seriously, Fuck Facebook.

 


 

Spiders On Drug

Hilarious effects on spiders when they get high.

 

Springbreak Mistake

Always know what you're going for.

 

Bad Start

There's a saying that goes around frequently, which is 'getting up on the wrong side of the bed'. If your bed is against the wall, this means waking up and banging your head against the wall. Fortunately, my bed is not against the wall.

 

Unfortunately, calls made to my phone disturbed my sleep repeatedly until I was unwillingly, crankily awake. Damn it!

 

A bad start to a day can spoil a good day in many ways. First off you'll feel sleepy and sluggish all the time. Your movement and your brain becomes s-l-o-w.

 

Secondly you body sensors are numbed to the point you don't really feel hungry even though your body needs food. By the time you realized it, you're damn hungry and it's almost dinner time.

 

Thirdly, it becomes challenging to be cheery for others and for yourself. That's because half the time you wish to be in bed, but you can't because now you have stuffs to do, people to talk to and matters to resolve. How can you be happy when you can't do what you want to do?

 

Lastly, no matter what, you have to put up a professional front and communicate as if it's just another day. And you have to watch what you say because a slip of the tongue can leave you with a shitty after-taste.

 

I don't enjoy a bad start to another day. Not one bit. It cramps up my style. 

 

Seriously, let me sleep and I'll get back to you. Roar!!!

 

Good End

A good movie seen with a good friend makes an awful day have a good end. Thanks Ashley!

 

'Percy Jackson And The Lightning Thief' Synopsis

Trouble-prone teen Percy Jackson is about to be kicked out of school but that's the least of his problems. The gods of Mount Olympus and other assorted monsters seem to have walked out of the pages of Percy's Greek mythology texts and into his life and they're not happy. Zeus' lightning bolt has been stolen and Percy is the prime suspect. Now, Percy and his friends must embark on a cross-country adventure to catch the true thief, save Percy's mother, and unravel a mystery more powerful than the gods themselves.

 

 

'Percy Jackson And The Lightning Thief' Review

I don't know what my climbing friends are complaining about, because this show is quite entertaining.

 

While the British have Harry Potter, the Americans have Percy Jackson. Young boys with awesome powers. And emotional baggage tied to parental issues.

 

Like I said, I find the show entertaining. The story is told in a mixed of direct and indirect manner, injected with timely humor and peppered with plenty of thrilling action. It was rather hilarious and weird to watch Pierce Brosnan as a Centaur, with a horse's ass. And while Uma Thurman played her role quite well, it did her a great unjust to have her playing a minor yet impactful villainous role. Reminds me of the time she played Poison Ivy in one of the old Batman movies.

 

What I find challenging about the show is that the plot development was a bit confusing in the beginning. The battle scenes did make the story a little more understandable. The twist was definitely unexpected, but at least a villain was clear. If the whole movie is Greek to you, then maybe you will give the sequels a miss.

 

If things were to go by the book, there will be at least 3 more sequels coming up. The next one, Percy Jackson and the Sea of Monsters, is slated to be shown in 2012. I'm looking forward to it!

 


 

'Knowing' Synopsis

When a teacher opens a time capsule that was dug up recently in his son's elementary school, he discovers that it contains some chilling and strange predictions about the future. Some events have already occurred and some are yet to unfold. The discoveries soon lead him into believing that his family plays a role in the events that are about to unfold.

 

 

'Knowing' Review

If you knew what I know, would you have done things differently?

 

This is the second time in which Nicholas Cage plays a role where it involves knowing the future (first time is in 'Next'). And in both movies he play a tragic hero role. Except this time, the story really stretches one's imagination and belief.

 

As the story goes, Cage's character comes across a paper that has grim predictions of the future that is accurate to the dot. He tried as much as possible to alter the course of the future but somehow nature is just against him.

 

As the story develops, you can feel the desperation in Cage's character and the tremendous change from professor with issues to professor with a big burden of the world on his shoulders. Similarly, you can feel the desperation in the Rose Byrne's character as a protective mother and sympathized to how she reacted in dire situations. And you will be piqued by the role of the children in the whole story and the outcome of it.

 

What I enjoy a lot about the show is the grand scale of the story and how it showed that little things can impact a great deal to people and the world. What I didn't enjoy was how exaggerated some parts of the story can be. But hey, it's all part of a movie, right?

 

Well this is one show worth catching on a rainy day with a DVD or other means.

 

So, if you knew what I know, would you have done things differently?

 

Ultimate Tiredness

Seriously, some thing doesn't feel right today.

 

I woke up feeling tired. This despite sleeping for some 8 hours or so. Without so much as a bite, I surfed the net before going back to bed one hour later. And I was asleep till near dinner time. And I still fee tired!

 

Feels like the energy around is being sapped somehow.

 


 

Know Thyself... Better

It's been so long since I indulged in a me-me. But this one looked fairly interesting and I was in the mood for self-discovery. Thus I answered the questions and got the following (by the way it's from an app in Facebook. And I put my own comments in red):

 

Get to know yourself better

Dear Dean Addien, below are your Personality Tests result:

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve. (Hmmm... yes I was told to learn to listen to the heart than the head.... Looks like I still have more lessons to go)

Your view on yourself:
- You are intelligent
- Honest
- Sweet
- You are friendly to everybody
- Don't like conflict
- Because you're so cheerful
- Fun people are naturally attracted to you
- Like to talk to you

(I like this. Really. I think it's cause I'm a Sagittarius)
 

The type of girlfriend you are looking:
- You like serious
- Smart
- Determined people
- You don't judge a book by its cover
- So good-looking people aren't necessarily your style
- This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes
(Well I don't generally put a criteria on the girlfriend but friends have told me that I am quite choosy)

 
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
- You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person
- And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that pe

(The last statement didn't make sense as it was cut off. But yeah, I'm ready to commit to the One)

The seriousness of your love:
- You like to flirt
- Behave seductively
- The opposite sex finds this very attractive
- That's why you'll always have admirers hanging off your arms
- But how serious are you about choosing someone to be in a relationship

(This, I'm told, is what makes some girls afraid to commit to me and some girls wary of me. Well, I can't change those girls but I'm sure the right girl can change me)

Your views on education:
- Education is very important in life
- You want to study hard
- Learn as much as you can
(Knowing is everything)

 

The right job for you:
- You're a practical person
- Will choose a secure job with a steady income
- Knowing what you like to do is important
- Find a regular job doing just that
- You'll be set for life
(Knowing is everything. That's why I did this me-me. To know what I am like. Seems like now I must work on knowing what I like to do)

 
How do you view success:
- You are afraid of failure
- Scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you d
- Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous

(The first sentence applies to some aspect of my life. The second one doesn't apply because I will jump into a career. The last sentence is inspiring)

What are you most afraid of:
- Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel

(Why am I afraid of that?)

 

Is it Hot in Here??? 

Ever since I came back from India I found myself to be perspiring excessively. And it is mainly due to the humid weather. Have I become so accustomed to a cool environment that my body now is reacting negatively to this humid climate?

 

Hopefully I readjust in days to come, else I'll go around topless just to make sure my clothes don't soak up my perspiration. And that's not a pretty sight. =\

 

So Many in So Little Time

Catching up on the news, I noted that 8 people got arrested recently for crimes related to the caSINo. Barely 1 week after its opening and already 8 people were arrested. Seems like a sign of things to come: more crimes.

 

Well, what else to say but 'I told you so...' 

 


 

I Have Returned!!!

Finally, after much tribulations (including two chopper delays), I have returned to Singapore. It is good to be back.

 

As mentioned, February is the month of Love, so here's a sweet photo that sums it up.

 

Credits to Joyce for this photo. The bunnies are Timmi and Cherri.

 

A good friend of mine gave me a belated Valentine's Day gift. Let me share it with you.

 

Hearts! (I don't think he wants to be credited for this)

 

Spread the love!

It's good to be back!

 


 

A Chance Encounter With God of God

One thrilling thing about travelling out of the country is that you'll never know the kind of people you're going to encounter and how that will affect your travel experience. Some could make your trip memorable, while others could make you wish you never left your home. Then there are those who are, well, interesting.

 

From the hotel to the airport, a transport was arranged for me. The driver was a young Indian chap. He was quite polite and service-oriented, offering to carry my luggage and offering me drinks before we start on our journey.

 

In the beginning there was some small talk. He asked me where I was from (he thought I was from Japan), what's my experience like staying at the hotel and the food. In return, I asked him a bit about his work life and India in general.

 

That question about India was when the stories started rolling. He began by telling me how and why Mumbai is called Mumbai, the troubles plaguing the city, a bit of the local town politics (towns officials are akin to Godfathers), what makes Mumbai so unique (over 100 types of Indians from all over India can be found in Mumbai), why he worked in the hotel line and so on.

 

As he animatedly talked to me about India, I became both fascinated and annoyed. Anything about a country's culture, history and people fascinated me. Yet I was annoyed by the fact that the car slowed down when his talking and descriptive stories speed up. To the point some vehicles were honking us to speed up!

 

Then he asked me for my name. That's when things started to take an interesting turn. I said my name is Dean and he said it is a good name. I returned the compliment after he introduced himself as Pradesh Raj. Then he told me, with pride and humour, that the meaning of his name is God. To be more specific, the God of God. And of course I reacted animatedly by saying 'Woah! God of God! That's a really impressive name you got there!'

 

God of God then told me that it is funny for him to have that name, because he is a small man. He is slim built, and definitely appeared small compared to the big guys found in Hindi films and along the streets. Yet he has a big name. I mentioned that it must have been a tough time in school. We both laughed at that statement.

 

Thereafter he shared with me the meaning of my own name. In Hindi, my name has two meanings. The first meaning is 'Today'. Nothing fanciful about that. When he said that I wondered if that means I am one who lives in the present. After all, being called 'Today' has to mean something to that extent, right?

 

The second meaning of my name totally blew my mind away.

 

Me: "What's the other meaning of my name?"

 

God of God: "Small..."

 

Me: "Small???"

 

God of God: "Yes. Small... but powerful. Just like Mumbai. Mumbai is small, but powerful. So your the meaning of your name is small, but powerful."

 

Me: "Wow! Cool! I think I like this meaning better! Hahahaha..."

 

So the second meaning of my name is small, but powerful. That revelation did inspire me to create an impact on my life. It's a matter of figuring out how.

 

After telling me about the meaning of my name, God of God went on to provide an analysis of my character, my life and what the future can hold for me. At the end of it he told me that he shared with me all this because he had learnt about fortune-telling, palmistry, astrology and other stuffs related. And for me, I enjoy hearing such stuffs, good or bad.

 

On my character, he said that I am a good man. Simply because thru-out our conversation, I was polite and gave mutual respect to him despite him being just a service worker. He told me that some customers are rude and some are just plain arrogant. But we agreed there's different type of people in this world and one is bound to come across the good, the bad and the ugly.

 

And then he said that I am a person of desire. And from what he can tell, he said that I will get what I desire, even if it's thru indirect means some times. So if I desire simple comfort, I will get simple comforts. If I desire great achievements, God will help me attain that achievement. Knowing this does somehow make me feel small, but powerful.

 

About my future, he just told me that I tend to think a lot. He told me to take actions instead of inaction. Things happen for a reason, and there will be signs of it. I should learn to 'read the signs' and know when to act and when to think. It reminded me of my favourite book, The Alchemist, where the main character of the story was told to learn to recognize the signs and go with the flow of it. Eventually he did and it brought him a wonderful life that he dreamt about and greatness of life that he learnt about.

 

As we continued our conversation, I felt that something extraordinary was happening and something great was in the works. I just have to learn to recognize the signs, think less and act when needed to. God of God had given me some inspiration. The encounter had been divine.

 


Photos And Lessons

Finally, I will be going back to Singapore. It is confirmed that I will head back tomorrow night. Hooray!

 

Finally, I got hold of a camera. My own personal camera was not allowed onboard thus I had no photos to take. Till today, when I found a camera from one of the personnel. I borrowed it and finally managed to snap some pics.

 

Dean at work

A shot of the Rescue Ship

A view so beautiful

Another beautiful view

While I was taking photos of the sunset, this Indian guy came up to me and asked me if I could take a photo of him. To pass him the photos, he suggested that I email the photos to him. Being a kind soul that I am, I obliged and took a photo. He then asked me to take a few more shots, and directed me on how he wanted the shots to be taken.

 

After that, I thought he would offer to help me take some photos of me. But he didn't. Instead he went off to get pen and paper to write his email address. I was really annoyed by this, as he seemed to me to be ungrateful. The least he could offer was to help me take a photo for me. But he didn't.

 

When he returned, I had finished taking photos. The guy then started to talk to me, asking me where I'm from and so on. After that he just went on talking and talking and talking.

 

He started of with telling me about himself. Thereafter he went towards local politics, education and so on. The most interesting stories were that of his travel around India. Due to work he was able to travel to almost all parts of India and he related to me his experiences. I was quite intrigued by his stories, to the point my annoyance was gone. After a while someone he knew joined us and I left.

 

Looking back at my encounter with this guy, I learnt a few useful and valuable lessons.

 

Firstly, if you want something, you have to ask for it. People won't know what you want until you say it. It is pointless and very much a self-inflicting injury to think that people will know what you want. So the next time you want something, say it!

 

Secondly, whenever you get the chance, just travel around the world or around the region. The travel experiences will enrich your life greatly and you will see the world for what it is and people for who they are.

 

Thirdly, there's more to India than meets the eye. I will see it the next time I guess, because tomorrow I'm going home!!!

 


 

 

 

I try to live life to the fullest while enjoying the beauty that life has to offer.

 

It's all about the brighter and funnier side of life.

 

For everything else, you would have to discover for yourself.

 

Life's short. Work hard, play harder.

 

Email me: dean.addien@gmail.com

  

 

 

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